How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What are examples of real life forced feminization?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How common are novels, animes, or mangas, that are both coming of age and thriller? What do you think of these kinds of stories? What are some examples?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Does not procrastinate.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

My cantankerous beagle is very badly behaved at the dog park and always starts barking at the other dogs. Would pepper spray be an effective method to correct his inappropriate behavior?

What I need from you?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

That's it for today.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why do people have trouble accepting the very true fact that "The Blue Marble" photo of Earth is a composite and therefore (just like every other subsequent "picture" of Earth NASA has ever shown us) not a real photo but computer generated?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

When was the last time you had sex with someone much older than yourself?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Ask yourself:

I’ve a dismissive avoidant partner who said that he’s overwhelmed by our relationship and that he wants to break up, how do I get him back?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do not set goals—set systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Procrastinates a lot.

Making more friends is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.